The summer slow-down has started

This week marked the official start of the summer break for the kiddos. And I'm really hoping we do indeed embrace a slower rhythm this season.

The shock of summer's off hit us hard the first couple of years, but I think we've all softened to it now. This year, we're muddling through with a mix of camping holidays, camps, paid childcare, strategic annual leave and coordinated playdates. 

Part of me doesn't want to overly romanticise this time, as it really is a Tetris of fitting everything in, and I'm all-too-familiar with the chaos that ensues when a piece doesn't fit, or something falls through. But the other part of me very much does want to romanticise it, wants to lean in to the loveliness that this season can offer.

Here are a few of our guiding principles:

Make space for breathe out time

Several years ago, we introduced Ari to the concept of "breathe in" and "breathe out" time – basically, anything fun, exciting, social, was "breathe in" time, but eventually, you need to exhale, and that's where the quieter, at home "breathe out" time kicks in. He really latched on to it, and we still use it a shorthand for activities or when planning the week or even the day.

Follow a loose rhythm

The lack of routine and structure can be great, but it can also be a bit disconcerting, for kids and grown ups alike. We're planning on having a very loose rhythm, mirroring the one at one of the camps Aril will do later in the year  – Tuesdays are for arts and crafts, Wednesday for a cooking project, Thursday for an outing of some sort. 

Don't be afraid of repeat visits

While new outings are fun and exciting, I want to remind myself not to write-off the familiar – I'm learning that going to the same playgrounds, woods, lanes, beaches and parks can result in deeper play and more ease as it's all already familiar.

How's your summer looking? Open to all and any tips!